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Other children involved also usually do not tell what is happening quickly. Does your child come to you with a bullying problem? Then take it seriously: it is a hard step to talk about it. Usually, a bully or bullied child does not come to you by themselves. So be alert to the signs.<\/p>\n<h3>Signs from the victim and bystanders<\/h3>\n<p>Usually you can see that something is wrong from the bullied child&#8217;s behavior. But bystanders can also suffer and show certain signs. These are general signs of someone who is bullied or affected by bullying in class:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Your child changes behavior: they become quiet and withdrawn or aggressive. Sometimes the child starts thumb-sucking or bedwetting again;<\/li>\n<li>School results get worse;<\/li>\n<li>Bad sleep;<\/li>\n<li>Less self-confidence and does not dare to do things alone;<\/li>\n<li>Often has broken items or injuries;<\/li>\n<li>Complains of stomach or headache and nausea;<\/li>\n<li>Is literally alone, does not bring friends home, and avoids parties;<\/li>\n<li>Seems unhappy or depressed;<\/li>\n<li>Is afraid to go to school or be alone on weekends or holidays;<\/li>\n<li>Eats differently than normal;<\/li>\n<li>Looks for safe places and avoids groups and playgrounds.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n"},{"acf_fc_layout":"knop","knop":{"title":"Stop bullying, tips for parents","url":"https:\/\/oudersenonderwijs.nl\/en\/stop-bullying-tips-for-parents\/","target":""},"kleur":"primary"},{"acf_fc_layout":"extra_inhoud_blok","inhoud":"<h3>Signs of the bully<\/h3>\n<p>A bully can also show different behavior. Do you suspect your child is a bully? These are logical signs:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Refuses to cooperate with certain people;<\/li>\n<li>Has trouble seeing things from others&#8217; point of view;<\/li>\n<li>Acts more impulsively and aggressively;<\/li>\n<li>Behaves well around authority, but not elsewhere;<\/li>\n<li>Rebels against the group and acts bossy;<\/li>\n<li>Finds it hard to accept rules and limits.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n"},{"acf_fc_layout":"knop","knop":{"title":"My child is bullying others, what now?","url":"https:\/\/oudersenonderwijs.nl\/en\/my-child-bullies-others-what-now\/","target":""},"kleur":"primary"},{"acf_fc_layout":"extra_inhoud_blok","inhoud":"<h3>Start the conversation<\/h3>\n<p>Do you recognize your child in the signs above? Then start an open talk with your child: calm, listening, and clear. Even if your child denies it, it is important they know you are there for them. 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