Fact or myth? 5 common misunderstandings about school.

Fact or myth? 5 common misunderstandings about school.

Stories sometimes spread at school. From the schoolyard to WhatsApp groups and social media: parents share information with each other, but it is not always correct. This can cause confusion or unnecessary worry.

We list five common statements. Are they facts or myths?

1. ‘The voluntary parental contribution is mandatory.’

Myth.

The name actually says it all: the parental contribution is voluntary. Schools may ask parents for a contribution for extra activities, such as a school trip, excursion, or a saint Nicholas celebration. However, you are not obliged to pay this contribution.

Even if you do not pay the parental contribution, your child must be able to participate in the activities for which the contribution is requested. A school may not exclude a student.

2. ‘A school recommendation is final.’

Myth.

The school recommendation is carefully made by the primary school. The school looks among other things at the development of a student over several years and the result of the secondary school transition test.

If you disagree with the school recommendation or have questions about how it was made, you can always discuss this with the school. Ask on what the recommendation is based and discuss any concerns or expectations together.

3. ‘You are never allowed to take your child out during school holidays.’

(Usually a) fact.

Children have compulsory education. Therefore, in most cases, you may not just take your child on vacation outside the official school holidays.

Only in exceptional situations may you take your child on holiday outside school holidays. For example, if due to the nature of your work you really cannot go on vacation during a school holiday. A visit to family, a cheap trip, or avoiding crowds is not a valid reason.

Leave outside the fixed free days can also be given for special occasions, such as a funeral or religious event.

If you are unsure whether your situation qualifies, discuss it in time with the school.

4. ‘The school decides everything.’

Myth.

The school makes many decisions about education and daily matters. But as a parent, you also have rights. You have the right to information about your child’s development and can ask questions if you do not understand something or have concerns.

Moreover, parents have a say in various school matters through the school participation council.

A good cooperation between parents and school starts with open communication. Often you get further by asking questions and continuing conversations together.

5. ‘If my child needs extra support, the school must always provide it themselves.’

Myth.

Schools have a duty of care. This means they must investigate what support a student needs and how it can best be organized.

Sometimes the school can provide the support themselves. In other cases, it is looked at which school or facility better fits the educational needs of the child. The starting point is always that a student gets a suitable educational place.

Do not keep walking around with questions

Education rules can be quite complicated. This sometimes leads to misunderstandings or you do not know exactly what your rights and obligations are as a parent.

Do you have doubts about a situation at school or have questions about the rules? Feel free to contact our advice point. We are happy to think with you and help you on your way.